• Believe in yourself. Self-efficacy is the psychological concept that [Stanford University psychology professor Albert] Bandura introduced in 1977 to describe how much someone believes he or she can succeed at making a habit change. Studies clearly show that the greater your self-efficacy, the better your chances of success.“Unless people believe they can succeed, they have little incentive to act or persevere when faced with difficulties,” Bandura says. His research shows that self-efficacy improves when people set attainable goals and then meet them.
• Expect slips. When Norcross studied people who made New Year’s resolutions, he discovered that nearly everyone experienced a slip within the first two weeks of the year. What separated those who succeeded long-term from those who failed was how they viewed their slips.Successful habit changers saw the slip as a reason to recommit to their efforts, while those who failed long-term “misinterpreted their slips as evidence of their inability to maintain their habit change,” he says. “If you can forgive yourself for the small sins, salvation is still in sight.”
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